How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 02.07.2025 23:51

How does one succeed in life?

Does not procrastinate.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Ask yourself:

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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Hangs out with loser friends.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

My boyfriend has been separated from his wife for 5 years. Why won't he divorce her? Should this be a deal breaker?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Do not set goals—set systems.

According to the Gita, how do I abandon fruits of my karma? Should I donate my whole salary and stay hungry?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Does the fact that the Ukraine war wasn’t ended in 24 hours like Trump promised mean that he either lied or was too dumb to understand that it is more complicated?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Procrastinates a lot.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

What I need from you?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Making more friends is a goal.

That's it for today.

Living to your full potential is a goal.